Idk I don’t think he’s homophobic if he simply doesn’t care. There’s a difference between being homophobic where you don’t accept people and then where he just might not care as in he doesn’t mind. Though I don’t want to compare this to a piece of toast it’s a good analogy. If you ask somebody if they want butter on their toast and they say they don’t care, doesn’t mean they don’t like butter. Might be wrong but this what I am seeing this as rn